The only thing that is constant is change

Have you ever asked yourself, "How in the world did I get myself into this?"

From what I hear we very well could be asking ourselves that exact same thing once we "tie the knot." We might ask it again once we get pregnant, and then again once that baby comes.

The fact remains that change is always going to happen. The question is how we are going to deal with it. Change can be scary. It brings with it the unknown, which is one of the biggest fears of the human race. But without change, progress cannot happen. There is no comfort in the growth zone and there is no growth in the comfort zone.

Once we accept this inevitability, the transitions will be easier. Having a strong support group is always a good idea, especially when your main supporter is your spouse - the same person that you'll be going through all of this with.

Always remember that you are not the only one who has done this. Countless others have gone before you. Take heart that you, too, can do hard things.